I'm having
my ouzaki at an outdoor cafe on Aristotle Street. It's early
evening and Thessaloniki is brimming over with life. I watch a
continuous parade of people, most of them young men and girls, going
about their business. I enjoy watching people going by and imagining
their lives. A long time ago, in 1978, I published a short story
called Centre Ville. Centre Ville is the pub in the centre of
Dordrecht above which my maternal grandfather was born. It's about
watching people going by and imagining their lives, it's about
enjoying the beauty of young and graceful girls, it's about the
melancholy that touches you when you see elderly people plodding on.
It's about what you can't imagine to happen to you when you are
gradually ageing yourself, though you will never admit you're
anything older than twenty three. I was twenty seven when I wrote
that story, beginning to feel old. At thirty I thought life was more
or less over, until just before turning thirty six I met Stella which
meant the beginning of the best part of my life. People in their
sixties were still unimaginably old then, but years later, when
Stella died of cancer at sixty one, I found that much and much too
young. Time puts things in perspective. The younger you are, the
heavier you feel the pressure of time.
I think of
Kate Hunt, a girl in Florida that faces prison and who is in danger
of having her whole life ruined for the crime of falling in love with
another girl. A girl three years younger. Kate eighteen, her love
fifteen. What on God's earth is wrong with two teens falling in love
with each other, never mind whether they are of the same or different
sex? What on God's earth can be wrong with an eighteen year old
loving a fifteen year old and vice versa. It's all consensual I read
about the case, but the parents of the fifteen year old have filed
charges for sexual abuse and the raving idiots that run the high
school Kate visited have even expelled her just before the final
exams. It must be a frightful experience to fall in love in Florida
and particularly when your love has such bigoted and vindictive
parents. People ready for a good witch burning. The friend from whom
I learned about Kate Hunt wrote on Facebook that the arrest was
outrageous and indeed it is. Which law enforcement officer in his or
her right mind could have Kate arrested for just following her heart?
It is not as if a thirty year old starts an affair with a twelve year
old, is it? The life of a young girl is purposely being destroyed
because some parents hate gays. That is a most serious crime.
I think of
the days in which I wrote Centre Ville. I was in a happy
relationship with a girl of seventeen at the time. The first girl I had
a serious relationship with was fifteen while I had just turned
nineteen. Those were happy summer days on the Wirral, but we weren't
gay and that was England, not the USA, home of that Lord who punishes
down to the seventh generation, where carrying a gun on the streets
is more acceptable than carrying a six-pack of beer, the blessed
country that spreads more pornography on the internet than any other.
I do hope they come to their senses in Florida. No more witch
burnings!
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